Kamis, 16 Juli 2009

Menjawab Pertanyaan tentang Teman

Ini udah kedua kalinya ditanyain secara tiba-tiba sama temen: "Cha, aku tu ga pernah bener2 temenan deket sama cowok, lho.. Kamu kok bisa ya?"

Trus setelah dipikir, temen deketku gak cuma cowok kok, well okay, dari jaman SMP aku selalu punya temen deket cowok sih, pas SMA juga, apalagi pas kuliah. Dan dari temen-temen itu dekeeet banget, sampe digosipin jadian, sodaraan, atau apalah. Ada juga masa-masa yang ngerasa nyaman banget sampe mikir bahwa 'i love him' deh kayaknya,tapi gak tau ya, ending2nya sadar kalau perasaan itu ya perasaan sayang dan nyaman aja sama dia, bukan yang fall in love. Mungkin karena tipeku yang easy going aja, jadinya bisa bersahabat sama cowok, tapi kalo giliran cowoknya yang suka nih biasanya yang jadi ga enak, karena cowok lebih terbuka mengungkapkan, nembak, dan pas ditolak pasti keadaan jadi ga nyaman.

Orang bolehlah mendebatkan ada atau ngga nya persahabatan antara cewek dan cowok, aku pribadi memilih untuk gak ikut berdebat dan gak menganggap perdebatan itu eksis. Karena persahabatan itu kecocokan jiwa. Mau sama cewek, sama cowok, sama yang seumuran, lebih tua, lebih muda, kaya, miskin, kayaknya kalo udah cocok ya, terjadilah. Boleh juga dibilang seleksi alam, kalo temen2nya cewek semua, pasti adalah konflik yang akhirnya sampe di satu titik, masih bisa gak ya sahabatan sama orang ini? Kalo temennya cowok, konflik itu bisa dalam bentuk 'perasaan cinta', yang akhirnya pihak-pihak yang berteman harus membuat keputusan, mau tetep sahabatan atau jadi pacaran, udah gitu aja, gak usah dilebih-lebihkan atau didramatisir jadi sebuah perdebatan panjang.

Aku sih percaya, ada orang-orang yang terlahir cocok buat kita,. Orang-orang yang 'klik' dari pertama kita ketemu, dan itu gak mengenal gender, ras, umur, atau atribut nyata lainnya. 'Klik' itu absurd, we just knew it...

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Jessti mengatakan...

hehehe... ga bisa ga setuju cha, "klik itu absurd".. :)

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absurditas yang nyata tapi ga bisa dijelaskan dengan logika :)

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